I have a really weird problem.
We switched our 1&1 Hosting package to a 1&1 managed server, because of the script memory problem.
The migration to the server was going fine. After that i did a wordpress update to 3.01 and a theme update from 3.4.5 to 3.5.3
Everything seemed to be fine, pages loading fast everything in place ...
After Posting new feeds the nightmare started ... the last post took way to long to load, when clicking on it's permalink ( around 9 seconds! ) all others did load around 0.5 seconds !
After some time the complete blog didnt load anymore. The header was rendered and stopped on first menu item (menu1, horizontal) , after a minute or so the rest was rendered, but without widgets

my first workaround was, to re-save any post or page. the site was loading complete again, but the last post had the same problem with long loading times. After some hours the site stopped again working.
I found out following now .. when the problem happens i need to switch back to a older atahulpa version , then back to 3.5.3 , resave any post/page and everything is fine, unless i do another post.
I hope someone can help me on this. the server is fine , i have other wp-sites running on it and some other cms too. the database is also fine, because i did complete new installation and imported the xml files not a db dump.
the site is : www.grueneliga-berlin.de
thanks for reading