|I need a simple widget or a manner of making a link in a sidebar, "all posts" where on a separate page are all my post titles . yes i know about query posts widget but i dont' waqnt the list in the sidebar. yes i know about wp list pages but i cannot understand how to make it work. so i need help, clear concise help. thanks in advance.

Sorry, I don't understand what you are asking. Are you looking for a widget or looking to list all your posts on a page?

Either or. I doesn't really matter--with most everything for these processes you can use a wiedget or just write up the code. I have found EG Archives and that does the task quite well.

Cheers.