I have done nothing to the core theme files, and yet I find that the site seems to take forever to load.
Can anyone try to load my site, and tell me roughly what they are hitting in time?

I originally thought it had to do with the databases so I actually built another server that houses all of the databases, and the wp-config points to that computer for the information.

There are 3 sites running the theme...

www.disneycontestblog.com
www.myblogs4u.com
www.gameblogs4u.com

Thanks.

just used firebug (ou should learn how to use it) and looked at the disne site. seeml like a llot of time is spend waiting for dismark.com

Only problem is that I am inside of my 5 ips, so my speed tests won't make a difference. I am trying to have total outsiders give me any ideas.

How were the other sites when it came to loading?

I am going to temp remove the DisMarks widget.