Instead of creating a menu item that points to a page, create a menu item that points to a link, and use a pound sign (#) as the URL.
- Go to Appearance > Menus.
- If you do not see a section called Links (below Pages), then click the Screen Options tab in the upper right corner and check the box labeled Links.
- Expand the Links section. For URL, enter a #. For Link Text, enter the text for the menu item.
- Click the Add to Menu button, then drag your new menu item to the correct position in the Menu Structure section. Drag any submenu items underneath it.
- Click the Save Menu button.
Now when your users click the menu item, nothing will happen. They will have to pick one of the two sub menu items.