http://berkshirecountryhomesrealesta...home-together/

Is the link to our posts. I just want to close the reply box and only have it open when someone clicks on "leave a reply"

I know is something simple I just don't see it.

two possibilities I can think of off the top of my head
1) do it with a jscript
2) do it with CSS

for (1) you will have to code up a jscrript to hid it, then unhide it when someone clicks on it.
for (2) you would have to make the 'Leave a Reply' a link (this would mean changing the theme code) linking to itself and use CSS, hide the remainder of the comment form. Then with psuedo classes, unhide the form when the link is clicked.

If you are not proficient with jscropt or php and css you should try to hire someone to do this for you.

Then where is the css for the form. I have tried to change it in the theme but to no aval.
I don't know what is keeping it white?

Thanks so much!

are you using a plugin for the comments?