i have looked and looked for a solution to changing the prodtitles.. Can someone please tell me how to do this.. The site is http://everyflygirl.com for example dresses page..

Thank you

that page looks fine to me, so if there is someting wrong, you will need to explain the issue in more detail.

The product titles are blue they need to be pink or gold.. currently the dont match the site

You should use a code inspector like FireBug in FireFox to look at the element and see what CSS is being applied to it and where that CSS is coming from. Then you can decide how to change it and even test it on the fly.