This is the code I have. The new code is "not to highlight home page". This did not work. The home page gets the same background as the other tabs.
/* ================================================ */
/* how to highlight parent of current page */
/* ================================================ */
ul.rMenu li.current_page_ancestor a:active,
ul.rMenu li.current_page_ancestor a:visited,
ul.rMenu li.current_page_ancestor {
margin-top:0px;
color: #ffffff !important;
background: #34597F !important;
}
/* ================================================ */
/* how to not highlight home page */
/* ================================================ */
ul.rMenu li.current_page_item_20 a:active,
ul.rMenu li.current_page_item_20 a:visited,
ul.rMenu li.current_page_item_20 {
color: #ffffff !important;
background: transparent!important;
}
/* ================================================ */
/* how to highlight current page */
/* ================================================ */
ul.rMenu li.current_page_item a:active,
ul.rMenu li.current_page_item a:visited,
ul.rMenu li.current_page_item {
color: #ffffff !important;
background: #34597F !important;
/*background: -webkit-gradient(linear, 0 0, 0 bottom, from(#748daf), to(#5b6e88))!important;
background: -webkit-linear-gradient(#748daf, #5b6e88)!important;
background: -moz-linear-gradient(#748daf, #5b6e88)!important;
background: -ms-linear-gradient(#748daf, #5b6e88)!important;*/
/*background: -o-linear-gradient(#748daf, #5b6e88)!important;*/
/*background: linear-gradient(#748daf, #5b6e88)!important;*/
/*-ms-filter:"progid:DXImageTransform.Microsoft.linear-gradient(startColorstr=#748daf,endColorstr=#5b6e88 )"!important;*/
/*filter

rogid:DXImageTransform.Microsoft.linear-/*gradient(startColorstr=#748daf,endColorstr=#5b6e8 8)!important;*/
/*-webkit-border-radius: 4px !important;*/
/*-moz-border-radius: 4px !important;*/
/*border-radius: 4px !important;*/
/*-ms-filter:"progid:DXImageTransform.Microsoft.Blur(pix elRadius=4)" !important;*/
/*filter

rogid:DXImageTransform.Microsoft.Blur(pix elRadius=4) !important;*/
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www.blueberrybuilders.com